July 10, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Christian, Bible, Jesus, God, Lord, eternity, good, Heaven, Hell, intentional, garden, fruit, teachings, tree, bad, Adam, Eve, sheep, wolves, prophets, true, false
Strawberries, oranges, blueberries, mangoes, bananas, watermelon, raspberries, nectarines, peaches, kiwi, cherries……………….only a few of so many varieties of fruit ! Wow, the list is endless !
Each type of fruit has its individual taste – some are sweet, some are tart, some are sour – some are sweet “and” sour ! Most of the time we can identify each type of fruit by its distinct flavor.
In the Bible, we are instructed by Jesus, that we need to be aware of “good” and “bad” fruit. “A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.” (Math. 7:18)
He was referring to false prophets, those people who “come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits.” (Math. 7:15-16)
We need to constantly be wary of false teachings that will lead us away from the Lord Jesus and our Heavenly Father. Many times these teachings look good from the outside, but if we take the time to “bite” into them, their bitter “taste” can sour our lives.
Don’t be fooled by the luscious appeal of first impressions. Find out from what “tree” these teachings are coming from………..or you will end up like Adam and Eve………
- and be thrown out of the “garden” of eternal life – (Heaven)
- into the “fiery furnace”-(Hell)———–for eternity.
July 2, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged relationships, Christian, Bible, God, good, wisdom, evil, intentional, smell, fragrance, fresh, exchange, dog, Basset Hound, foul, discretion, understanding, Proverbs, odor
Basset Hounds look loveable. We have one who lives in our neighborhood and waddles down the street in front of our house every now and then. While working in my office one day, I happened to glance out the front window. I could see a couple of people hovering over this dog, and one of them bending down to pet him. The dog really enjoyed the attention and for a few moments it was a happy scene………..
But then…….I saw that the person who had pet the dog hold out his hand awkwardly – well away from his body – holding it way out, as he walked into the house next door………
I knew what had happened – the same thing had happened to me the first time I met this dog. He looked so loveable, and I bent down to pet him – then realized that the awful smell emanating from the dog was all over my hand ! It took a long time to get rid of the “smell” !
A “trade-off” ! With the “good”, came the “bad”. In life this happens all the time. Some trade-offs are worth the “smell” involved………..if the end result is good.
So what is good?
In the Bible we can read about many examples of good and bad, and gain the wisdom to know the difference. We are told that if we seek God’s wisdom, ”He” will help us find it.
“When wisdom enters your heart, and knowledge is pleasant to your soul, discretion and understanding will preserve and keep you……to deliver you from the way of evil….” (Proverbs 2:10-12)
The “odor” of our lives can be “fragrant” instead of “foul” !
June 25, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged relationships, Christian, Bible, God, Savior, eternity, battle, good, Heaven, Hell, Jesus Christ, soul, protection, evil, intentional, salvation, war, soldier, conflict, armor, spiritual, physical, Satan, principalities, mental, emotional, warriors, powers
Warriors wage war.
We are all warriors. In life there are always conflicts of some sort which need to be dealt with. Whether these conflicts are small or large, we are faced with being “soldiers” of courage – or cowards.
Good soldiers must be prepared. There are obvious physical battles, but there are also those in the spiritual realm. These spiritual battles show up in various forms – physical, mental, emotional – leading to struggles between good and evil. Preparations for spiritual battles include praying and wearing our spiritual armor.
“For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. ” (Eph. 6:12)
Many conflicts we experience in life have their roots in the spiritual realm. History over the centuries records the continuous struggle between good and evil. From worldwide to the personal, the “powers” behind these conflicts are constantly at work – 24/7 !
Are you armed and ready ? If you think you are and you have not received Jesus as your Lord and Savior, you will be taken down – literally….to Hell… in the end.
Jesus was the only one who had victory over death – “He” has defeated the enemy (Satan) – and Jesus wants you to spend eternity in Heaven. It is only through “Him” that you can withstand the gates of Hell.
Put on “His” protection, and besides winning battles, you will win the ultimate “war” -
Eternity in Heaven - or Hell…………
June 16, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged relationships, Christian, Bible, Jesus, God, life, exercise, peace, choice, music, positive, intentional, burden, light, heavy, load, negative, rest
As I was driving out of a parking space, a large SUV pulled into the space next to mine and cut me off from moving ahead. The woman who was driving (and talking on her cell phone) seemed oblivious to the fact that she had driven her vehicle in front of me.
I could have looked at this as an act of rudeness, that somehow she didn’t seem to care that I was there – but I didn’t………I calmly waited until she was parked and then just went my way.
As I drove away, it occurred to me that this incident could have “two tones” - negative or positive. I could think negatively about the woman who was driving and get angry, or I could let it go as a blunder, and not let it bother me.
I felt good about the fact that I had chosen to be positive about the situation. Then thoughts about why I had chosen to be positive came to mind. Was it the uplifting music I had been listening to that morning? Was it the great workout I had?
Positive circumstances can lead us into a good mood – temporarily……but what happens when negative circumstances outside ourselves become overwhelming? That great music and awesome workout won’t be enough to carry the load…………..
Jesus said, “take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” (Math. 11:29,30)
Let “light and easy” become your “two-tones” -
- with Jesus !
June 9, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged action, Christ, Christian, God, intentional, Jesus, kindness, mission, motivation, procrastination, purpose, talents
Missions motivate…….
There is something about having a “mission” – a purpose – that creates motivation – the desire to take action.
Throughout my life, I have had to battle with procrastination. There would be times I had trouble seeing the “purpose” of whatever it was I thought I should do, so I would put it off for “later”…….
What a difference a clear “mission” makes ! When it is obvious that you are needed – that your presence and talents will make a difference in someone else’s life………then procrastination can give way to a proclivity for action.
When I was asked to babysit the grandkids one Saturday morning at the early hour of 5:30 am – my response was, “coffee and a MISSION ………I’d be glad to come !”
Missions come in all sorts of sizes and variations. Even the smallest acts of kindness can be meaningful. Jesus said, “For whoever gives you a cup of water to drink in My name, because you belong to Christ, assuredly, I say to you, he will by no means lose his reward.” (Mark 9:41)
Just make sure your “mission” has the good stamp of approval by the almighty “Maker” !
June 1, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged cost, eternity, fee, free, God, Jesus Christ, Lord, manipulation, open, paid, payment, price, salvation, Savior, service, truth
Have you read through the phone bill lately? I wondered why it was higher (again)……….
FEES ! More fees !
It seems wherever we turn these days there are fees for everything – they pop up to distort the “bottom line” on what you think you are going to pay for something. Services advertised for such a supposed low price sound good until it comes time to pay, and you are then told there are additional costs…..FEES!
Somehow it seems that we are supposed to be allright with this – as if paying more for something becomes acceptable because of these mystery fees….. what are they for anyway?
Perhaps it would be better to be informed of the “total” cost right up front – at least then it would not feel as if you were being manipulated, or told half-truths.
Thank you God that there is still something in this world that is not hidden from truth, and that requires “no” fees. This “something” is our salvation through the Lord Jesus Christ. It is open to anyone, with “no” hidden cost. Jesus already “paid” for everything.
Our eternal salvation is truly “free”……………with NO fee !
May 21, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, boundaries, Christian, conversations, encouragement, God, health, intentional, relationships, talk, tonic, toxic, words
Have you met a “toxic talkie” ?
Some of these people are obviously toxic – their language is full of swear words laced with anger. But there are others who are not so obvious. These are the people we have let into our lives, and then over time we come to realize that their lengthy conversations leave us with a bad “taste” in our mouth !
Subtle negative comments, self centeredness and insensitivity to your own needs become warning signs. Sometimes these people will push into your life with shallow caring words to draw you in, only to find out later that they had their own agenda.
Many times these people have had past hurts, and are looking for someone who will listen to them. Perhaps they have chosen you, but that does not mean that you must take responsibility for their feelings and moods. You can still show you care, and at the same time set healthy boundaries for yourself.
Personally I rely on my “ten minute timeline” for toxic talkies ! Usually within the first ten minutes the conversation can stay somewhat healthy. It gives you time to offer words of encouragement and then end the conversation before it becomes tainted.
“A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.” (Prov. 25:11)
Let our words be the “tonic” for the “toxic” !
May 13, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged anxiety, Bible, bondage, Christian, concern, courage, freedom, God, grace, happiness, health, intentional, Jesus, life, Lord, panic attacks, peace, problems, protection, provision, Savior, water, waves, worry
Don’t worry – be happy ! These are the words to a popular song a number of years ago. (It’s still a good song!)
When we worry we bring others and ourselves down. It does not seem to accomplish very much. It is a paralyzing activity.
There is always cause to worry. Life is full of problems. These problems can bring on a state of fear that fuels a worrisome attitude. Then fear becomes our “worry” ! We can then be in bondage to panic attacks.
Facing our fear, even embracing it can prevent panic. God tells us in His word that He promises to protect and provide for us. Our faith in God’s promises carry us through these “waves” of worry – we can turn our worries into manageable ”caring concerns”.
“Therefore, I say to you, do not worry about your life……..”(Math. 6:25)
“”Be anxious for nothing……..” (Phil. 4:6)
I have experienced panic attacks, and they are truly terrible. I no longer am in bondage to them. My saving grace through the Lord Jesus Christ led me to God’s unending supply of peace – and courage.
Now when the waves of worry come, I dive headfirst up, through, over them. Sometimes I come up sputtering, but Jesus is always there to help me up, and keep me strong.
Now I can start to look forward to the “bigger” waves as they approach -
- and dive right in !
May 9, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged anguish, blessing, Christian, family, God, intentional, joy, love, Mom, Mother's Day, purpose, responsibility
Words do little justice to describe the anguish and joy of motherhood. There is no greater responsibility – with no greater purpose – with no greater reward………………..
God bless you all and may you all be a blessing to your families.
May 5, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged appetite, balance, Bible, Christian, eternity, gluttony, God, health, Heaven, intentional, Jesus, joy, love, moderation
Do you eat too much, work too much, play too much, talk too much……..?
How do we know if we are doing or having too much? At what point do we realize that there should be a limit?
It would seem logical that if whatever it is we are being gluttonous about boomerangs and ends up being hurtful, then maybe that would be the sign to stop………..although, stopping altogether may not be the answer either – maybe just cutting back would be good enough.
The Bible talks about the sin of gluttony. It is described as being a characteristic of the wicked, that it could lead to poverty, and that it is sternly forbidden.
“Put a knife to your throat if you are a man given to appetite.” (Prov. 23:2)
Overdoing something, even if it is a good thing, can end up tainting the goodness of it – even if it seems innocent. Finding the “balance” of moderation seems to be the healthy alternative. Sometimes it takes some trial and error attempts before we find that balance point.
I had to wonder – how about overdoing loving others? How about overdoing spending time with God? These seem like acceptable “overdoing” categories.
Then it occurred to me that overdoing anything, can take ”time” away from something else – and that ”something else” could be just as important……….hmmmmmmm……
- so until we are in Heaven where “time” no longer exists, “too much” will continue to be a problem -
- then “too much” will turn into eternal joy – forever……..and it will never be “too much” !
October 13, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged encouragement, family, marriage, relationships
The weekend is over, it’s now time to get busy?
Somehow everything that needs to be done seems overwhelming and it’s hard to get motivated. I had my two cups of coffee, waved good-bye to my husband as he drove away to go to work. I love to send him off in the morning – I wave to him and he waves back. We have come to cherish this small and special ritual.
Come to think of it, these small and special moments are what make life “grand”. Even on a Monday.
October 14, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged attitude, Bible, Christian, encouragement, thoughts
Up before sunrise, sipping coffee, stepping outside – the sound of the breeze through the trees……the peaceful moments before the day begins. All seems well with the world during this time, but yet I know that soon the worries of life will enter my day at some point.
The Bible talks about not worrying about anything – to not be anxious, but instead give it all to God in prayer with thanksgiving. He promises that His peace will guard our hearts and mind. Isn’t it true that our attitude starts in our heart and then guides the thoughts in our mind?
Today, let the soothing sound of the breeze through the trees be a reminder of HIS perfect peace.
October 15, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, Christian, elderly, encouragement, Jesus, survival, thoughts
This is mid-week for some – for me, it is also mid-life! Although, technically, I suppose I have entered into the “last third”. I turned fifty five this year, and let’s face it, the “golden years” do not seem so “golden”. So many advertisements show us older folk smiling and enjoying life’s pleasures. Frankly, the issue of survival is forefront on my mind. If you look around you can see that our world today does not promise that survival will always be easy.
Jesus said, “my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
When I turn my thoughts and prayers towards the Lord, I am reassured in my heart that “HE” is in control and all I have to do is trust in “HIM”. My survival issues are in “HIS” hands. My burdens just became weightless, and I am free to enjoy life’s simple pleasures………………… How “wonderful”!
October 16, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, Christian, encouragement, prophecy, truth
“Presidential” promises abound during these times before the election in November. Opinions based on fact and some not based on fact are spoken. We need to be careful about believing everything we hear, or read. Doing our own research to find out what is true is very important in this day and age. Not finding out the “real” facts could lead us into trouble and harmful consequences.
Finding out the “truth” is a qwest we all should follow. The Christian Bible speaks a great deal about wisdom and what is truth. The more I research and read the Bible, the more I realize that nothing that has been done or spoken is new under the sun. I have found that all of God’s “promises” have come true and are still coming true. I can now rely on the Bible as “truth” with the facts to back it up. When all is said and done I would rather “bank” on God’s promises. They will ultimately lead me to an eternal investment!
December 16, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Christmas, give, God, grace, Jesus Christ, love, motive, Savior
Why do you do what you do? What motivates you to do or say something?
During the Holiday season of Christmas, we become even more aware of the needs of others. Gift giving and get togethers bring people closer to one another. Taking the time to “chat” and offer encouragement goes a long way towards showing our love for one another.
Getting outside of ourselves is a refreshing way to manipulate our time and energy. Unselfish motives take on rewarding incentives. Greedy habits are replaced by healthy routines. The mundane becomes memorable………
If we are motivated by a sincere love for one another, our lives brim with the flavors of the goodness of the Christmas season. Who can then resist the essence of the majestic dawning of the new world to come -promised by our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Because of God’s pure love, Jesus was born. We can receive Him as our Savior and receive this wonderful gift purely through grace - God’s amazing grace. God’s motive of love generated by unending grace………….becomes our motive to love one another, even more than ourselves………..
……..then “giving” is no longer contingent on “getting”………
December 13, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged communication, conversation, forgiveness, Lord, misunderstanding, prayer
As my husband and I raised our two sons we got used to using certain phrases in our conversations. Because they were boys, sometimes the conversations could be short and blunt. Many times we would just be having a good time and whatever was said was all in good humor.
One of the phrases we used was, “you snooze, you lose”. Usually this would be said if someone didn’t do or get something quick enough. It was never thought of in a negative light, and was commonplace in our home.
One morning as I was organizing a youth event at our church, a woman asked me if there was any time left to sign up for the event. I told her that unfortunately the dates for sign ups had passed. Without thinking I blurted out, “you snooze, you lose.” Since this phrase was normal and not a problem at our house, I thought nothing of it.
Well, when the woman angrily spun on her heel and indignantly walked off, I had a sinking realization that what I had said was not taken with good humor. I made it a point to call her later that afternoon. She informed me that she was offended, and had to discuss it as a serious matter with her husband. I apologetically explained to her that I meant no harm, and that what I had said was a figure of speech which we used in our home.
Misunderstandings in communication happen. Innocent blunders can turn into quarrels. In order to make things right, we need to make the effort to understand the other person’s perspective, and to allow forgiveness to become the focus.
In the Lord’s Prayer we are reminded to – forgive others their trespasses, just as we have been forgiven ours.
With forgiveness - our “figures of speech” can be fun – and not fatal !
October 20, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, Christian, encouragement, laughter, medicine
Has anyone ever told you that laughter is good medicine? When you smile and laugh at life, all of a sudden things seem better. Smiling and laughing promote a feeling of being merry. In the Bible, there are many references to being merry. “A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance” is one of my favorites. So how can I be merry amidst all the troubles of life?
Jesus said, “be of good cheer, for I have overcome the world”.
Wow! Jesus has already taken care of everything! All I have to do is give my burdens to “Him”. He can handle it, no problem! Not only did He give His life for me but He promises to take care of everything. Well then, that sure puts a different spin on things. No other medicine on earth can make that claim!
Cheers!!
October 21, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, Christian, faith, Jesus, money, trust
Who do you trust? What do you put your trust “in”? I suppose most of us would think first about our relationships. What people in our life do we put our trust. And then we could also think about material objects that we trust, such as buildings, roads, tools, etc. Our American currency states “in God we trust”. Well, we all know by now that our currency isn’t the best place to put our trust!
So how about God? After all, the phrase “in God we trust” is something we’ve all heard or read at some point. I have put my trust in God. I also admit that there have been many times when I have felt like “He” has broken that trust and failed me. Even Jesus, who was dying on the cross, cried out to God, “why have you forsaken me”?
So then, why should I put my trust in anyone or anything, even God? Whenever that question comes up, I am reminded that trust isn’t complete without the element of faith. My faith will always have to carry me through the times when it seems that trust has been broken. Eventually, at the end of the day and at the end of my life, it is where I put my faith that will really matter.
December 11, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged birth, faith, God, Jesus, Joseph, kindness, love, Mary
Imagine getting ready to give birth to your baby, arriving at the hospital, and finding out that there is no place for you. That you could go and use the barn out back?
Then imagine that the baby you are carrying is the Son of God?
Nowadays, we are used to getting first class medical attention when it comes to having a baby. Being told that there is no room and to use the barn out back would be totally unacceptable. In fact, if I was carrying the “King of Kings”, the “Lord” of all creation, I would have to wonder why God just didn’t “make” room……..?
Were Joseph and Mary “fine”with this when they found out there was no room at the Inn? Did they question God about His plan? Why couldn’t God have pampered Mary and provided the perfect accommodations?
I am reminded that God’s love is not a “pampered” love, but a “perfect” love. When I find myself in what seems to be a precarious situation, God’s plan doesn’t always make sense. His perfect plan doesn’t always accommodate my comfort zone.
Jesus’s humble beginning was foreordained. Joseph and Mary made many sacrifices to be obedient to God’s plan. They gave of themselves in order to give to all of us. Their incredible faith and kindness -
- will forever be time-honored…………
October 22, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Christian, eternal, exercise, Jesus, life, swimming, thirst, water
Water is truly amazing. We clean with it, play in it, admire it and most importantly drink it. Without it, we would die and so would all the plants and animals. Life on earth would not exist. It really is a most precious commodity.
I also like to swim laps in it. This has been a part of my exercise routine for the last twenty five years and has always served to replenish me mentally as well as physically. Drinking water to quench my thirst gives me a physical boost, and swimming laps gives me an adrenalin boost. Both are important aspects to providing and improving my life here on earth. But what about eternal life?
Jesus said, “but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. It will become a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.”
Apparently there is more to “water” than meets the eye! Besides drinking water from your own cup, drink the water that Jesus has to offer, from “His” cup. Your thirst will be “eternally” quenched!
October 23, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged caring, cooperation, empathy, love, relationships, respect
It was a brief stand-off.
The sun was setting, the lighting had gone dim. I latched the gate to the horse corral and turned to begin my walk back to the barn area. It was then that I noticed a coyote slowly trotting toward me, only about fifteen yards away and steadily advancing. I stood very still, transfixed, wondering why he had seemingly not noticed me. Only six feet from me he stopped and did not move. I knew he had just now realized I was standing there. In between him and me was a round cement post which was just wide enough to block me from seeing him on the other side. I knew he was still there and he knew I was still there! Neither of us moved. I waited for him to move and it seemed he was waiting for me to move! Not ever being faced with this type of situation, I was not really sure what would be the safest thing to do. If I moved, would I frighten him? Would he then attack me or would he run away? It seemed a very long time we waited on each other. It became almost humorous, as if he was thinking the same things about me?
Well, I finally took a chance and chose to slowly turn and walk in the opposite direction from where he was standing. As I did so, he did the same thing and I saw him slowly trotting away from me. We both casually moved away from each other in our own directions. No harm done.
This reminded me of how it can sometimes be with relationships. There can be a “cement post” in the way, blocking our way to understanding one another. Each person on either side wondering about the other person’s possible reactions, afraid to make a move, for fear of hurting one another or getting hurt. So nobody does anything, both sides waiting for the other to make a “move” ?
Take a chance, make a move – you just might find out that you can get along, even in each other’s territory!
December 11, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged basics, Bible, busy, God, love, order, purpose, time, waste, worthy
Do you save leftover food, no matter how small the amount? How about that odd sized piece of aluminum foil at the end of the roll? Do you pick up the penny lying on the ground?
“I don’t want to “waste” it,” we think to ourselves. We want to feel that we have put everything to good use.
How about how we spend our time? These days, “busy-ness”, is a popular description of our days. But just because we are busy, doen’t necessarily mean we are spending our time wisely. The Bible talks about “redeeming the time”. We are reminded that our time on earth is limited, and that we should not waste it.
Sometimes it is difficult to decide how to use our time wisely. Our daily routine tasks and responsibilities crowd our schedules. We can lose track of the time, and then realize too late that we should have focused less on “busy-ness” and more on the “basics” of life.
Spending time with God is always time well spent. He guides us into a life of fullfillment and purpose. He is a God of order, of peace and love. He shows us the simple “basics” of a life with Him. Then we can spend time enriching not only our lives, but other’s as well.
Our time becomes “worthy” instead of “wasted”……..
December 9, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged encourage, God, grace, love, marriage, prayer
We’ve heard it said, “it’s all in the timing” or “everything in its time”.
Many of us have experienced doing or saying something that seemed to be at the “wrong” time. The result of what we said or did ended badly.
In marriages, the timing of a conversation can make a difference. Is our spouse not feeling well, tired or already irritable? Perhaps waiting for a better “time” could change the overall tone of an issue that needs to be discussed. Sometimes in our hurry to resolve an issue, we could make it worse by not waiting for the proper time. In our haste to “get it over with” we can make matters worse.
So how do we know when the timing is right?
Using prayer as a first step before any important discussion causes us to better realize God’s timing. Are my motives and attitude a reflection of God’s love and grace? Does what I have to say uplift or encourage?
God tells us that He can turn all things into good. I am thankful that when I mess up “His” timing, “He” can turn that which seemed to end badly, into the beginning of something very good………
and even make it look like it was the right “timing ” after all !
October 25, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged beliefs, Bible, Christian, facts, thoughts, truth
“Just the facts, madam, just the facts”.
What a familiar phrase to those of us who used to watch a television program called ”Dragnet”. The detective would remind people to give him “just the facts”. Many times people’s emotions would get in the way and cloud or distort the reality of the “facts”.
Factual information is often what helps lead us into the truth of a matter. We can speculate and we can form opinions, but ultimately, clear cut facts are hard to argue against. Interestingly, sometimes facts don’t become facts———until “after the fact” !
Facts are defined as “objective truth”. So, when someone says, “as a matter of fact”, does that mean that what is stated is “true”? Hmmmm……………..
How about something factual? Well, the sun rises every morning and sets every evening and “that’s a fact!” We all know that to be true, we have all seen it for ourselves. So if something is witnessed, then that something can become fact. Therefore, it can then become truth? Hmmmmmm……………
In the television program “Dragnet”, witnesses were very important to get to the truth of what really happened. In the Christian Bible, eye witness accounts were duly recorded. These “facts” were handed down through the generations for anyone who would want to know them. Now the question is, do I believe?
Hmmmmmm…………………….
October 31, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged actions, feelings, forgiveness, God, hurt, Jesus, love, prayer, relationships, words
Forgiveness can be tough.
Has anyone ever said something or done something to you that hurt your feelings? You wonder to yourself, “how could they have done that, or said that?” Don’t they understand what they are doing, or did do?
When we get hurt, or feel wronged in some way, it is a natural reaction to want to see that justice is rendered somehow. Of course, there is nothing wrong with justice, but there is a healthy and non healthy way to accomplish it. Sometimes, finding a way to make things right is sufficient.
In relationships, many times it’s not so much that a wrong has been committed, but that there was a misunderstanding. The words we may have used could have been too strong, or too weak, or not the right words in the first place. Perhaps our mannerisms may have been misconstrued. By trying to understand one another and keeping the lines of communication open we can avoid bitterness and anger.
This is where forgiveness becomes so important. I would like to know that I would be forgiven if I made a mistake, so I also need to be ready to forgive someone else if they made one.
The Lord’s prayer tells us “to forgive others as we have been forgiven”. Our Heavenly Father granted us the greatest forgiveness by His Son dying on the cross for all our transgressions. When I received that kind of amazing love it became more natural to extend that love to someone else. Forgiveness is one of the most powerful ways I can express my love for others. How about you?
December 5, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Connemara, faith, fear, God, horse, jump, pony, trust
The best horse I ever owned was a Connemara. He was my true friend for twenty six years. The one issue we worked through was fear. He was a very careful horse, but sometimes a bit too careful. The fear factor caused him to be very spooky at new objects or environments.
For several years I trained him to jump over obstacles. I had to slowly build his self confidence. Each new obstacle had to be introduced one step at a time. Sometimes we would only walk between two end standards. Then, we would walk over a single rail on the ground between the same standards. Then additional rails would be added, one at a time, until the entire jump was built. He became a superb jumper, rarely knocking down a rail. His extreme carefulness contributed to his excellent jumping ability.
As time went by, he became less fearful. He had learned to trust that he would survive new experiences, and new obstacles.
It reminded me that I also have to overcome my own fears. Life continually brings new experiences and obstacles to surmount. Some seem overwhelming and frightening. Over the years, I have developed a strong faith in God. It is this faith which brings me my greatest strength. As new obstacles appear in my life, I am able to “jump” them with less fear, and greater confidence.
I can replace “fear” with “faith” !
October 27, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged assumptions, Bible, Christian, encouragement, Holy Spirit, hope, Jesus, Lord, mirror, Savior, thoughts
I heard someone say, “what would I be thinking about myself, if I didn’t even know it was me?”
Let’s say you were standing outside yourself and you were describing you, without being you. What would you have to say? Well, first of all, you don’t know this person, so you could start making assumptions. If these assumptions are wrong, and if they were negative, you would feel very bad about thinking those things about yourself!
In Jesus’s Sermon on the Mount, He said, “why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?”
Sometimes I need to take a good look at myself. Sometimes I need to tell myself the truth, whether it’s good or bad. Sometimes I need a close friend to help me do this. Frankly, it’s scarey. Looking in the “mirror” may not be pleasant (especially if you are older like me!), but the good news is, there is hope.
Jesus promises that we have the power of the Holy Spirit to draw on when we are faced with the truth. By receiving Jesus as our Lord and Savior, I now have the Holy Spirit to help me change whatever it is that needs to be changed. Our Lord promises that we become a “new” creation in Him. The old has passed away, for good. Forever………………Now looking in the “mirror” can become a whole “new” experience!
December 5, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged budget, Christmas, gift, Jesus, love, patience, prayer
Those of us on a tight budget learn how to be thrifty. It is not always easy. Many times I am tempted to over spend, and then rationalize why that should be all right. Over the years it has become even more challenging to stay within a budget because of escalating costs.
Learning to wait before a major purchase can be difficult. Through prayer and patience, some purchases can be postponed. Sometimes, the purchase doesn’t even have to happen !
During the Christmas season it is very tempting to get caught up in the gift buying frenzy. Perhaps we want to show how much we care about our loved ones by the size or expense of our gift. Even anxiety ridden purchases are made with desperate attempts to find the “perfect” gift !
Centuries ago, the ”perfect” gift was given. It was the birth of Jesus - God’s wonderful gift to all of mankind. This is the “real” reason for the season. It required no monetary exchange. It was all about “love”.
Love – the truly “perfect” gift ———give more of that———
—-and you’ll “spend” less !
October 28, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged adventure, Bible, discovery, encouragement, exercise, Lord, neighborhood, thoughts, walking
Today I experienced a whole new place. It was a place I had not seen before. It was new to me so I felt a sense of adventure. It was a “new discovery”! The people were friendly, the flowers and trees were pretty…………..Where was this great find? It was my own neighborhood!
I had decided to go for a walk. I tended to want to walk the same ”tried and true” route, knowing exactly how many minutes it would take, but today, why not? How about something new? Well, I surprised myself when I discovered a part of my neighborhood I never knew existed. The added bonus was that the flavor of the day changed from uneventful, routine and dull———to an exciting anticipation of what might be around the corner!
As I walked home, I was reminded that each day can be turned into an adventure, because we really don’t know exactly how the day will unfold. In the Bible we are told about living each day with joyful anticipation. Every day is “the day that the Lord has made”.
So instead of thinking each day will be the same “tried and true”, let’s see what the Lord will do! Even in your own neighborhood!
October 29, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged anxiety, encouragement, fear, forward, God, help, horse, power, unknown
Sometimes when I ride my horse through an area he has never been before, he will stop and not seem to want to go forward. As I give him the signal to move on, he may slowly move ahead, or sidestep to avoid really having to go forward. He sometimes needs some extra help to get over any fear he has and enter into the unknown. Once in awhile, I will get off and quietly lead him through the area until he is ok with it. I always like the fact that although he may be reluctant at times, he is still willing to give it a try.
Many times in my life, when I feel afraid, I want to sidestep away from a straightforward course. It may seem easier to avoid whatever it is I should do. This seems to just make matters worse by prolonging the anxiety feeling that follows me around. I have found that if I ask for God’s help, He is always willing to help lead me forward into the unknown. He tells me through His word that He has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power and of a sound mind.
With “Him” to guide me into the unknown, I know that I can be “more” than willing !
October 30, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged blessing, Christian, disaster, encouragement, faith, fire, God, holiday, problem, relationship, thankful
I am already looking forward to Thanksgiving. It is one of my favorite holidays. So much goodness can be associated with it. When I stop to think about all I have to be thankful for, problems I thought I had can fade away. If I start my day in a spirit of thankfulness, my attitude already softens. Being reminded to also “give” thanks projects goodness outward and affects people around me.
Who are you giving thanks to? If you think about it, there are probably many people in your life deserving of a hearty “thank you”! Besides the obvious good things that folks do for us, even things that might seem bad at first can end up turning out for the good. It’s not easy to feel thankful when an event looks or feels bad. When our house burned down, things seemed pretty bad at first. I remember asking God why He would allow that to happen. But as time went by, I found out that our lives became better because of it!
Only God can turn something disastrous into a blessing. He promises to work “all” things out for the good. Because of my close relationship with Him, my faith can sustain me while I wait on Him for the “good” ending to the story.
Now that’s something to really be thankful for !
December 3, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged child, cold, faith, future, Holy Spirit, hope, ice, Jesus, Lord, Savior, snow, winter
Winter brings to mind cold and snowy weather. Warm jackets, hats and gloves make their way into our daily apparel. Building snowmen, throwing snowballs, sledding and iceskating are favorite pastimes in the regions which get large amounts of snow.
When I was a child, I enjoyed all the wintertime activites. Playing in the snow was a lot of fun. Later in life, adult responsibilities caused the winter season to take on another aspect. The snow and ice became more of a hazard than a time for fun. At times it was treacherous to drive, and sub zero weather was not a pleasant setting for the many errands that needed to be done.
As a child life seemed more of a winter “wonderland”. The promise of good times and hope was readily available. Later on, this “wonderland” was invaded by the trials of adulthood. Painful experiences etched away hopeful anticipations for the future.
Jesus said that we need to have the faith of a child in order to enter into His kingdom. A faith untainted by the trials of life. When we receive Him as our Lord and Savior, the Holy Spirit helps us to strengthen our faith and replenish our hope for the future -
- for our future “forever” wonderland…………!
December 2, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged God, Jesus, joy, life, treasure, truth
What do you treasure?
Time with loved ones? Adventure? Possessions?
We’ve seen many movies or read stories focused around seeking the discovery of something having great value. When it’s found it is a thrilling moment. But then what? Sometimes there can be an anti-climactic void – almost a depression……..Perhaps it is then that the “treasure” we thought that held so much value, didn’t meet our expectations.
The Bible talks a great deal about seeking the “truth” as if we were seeking a great “treasure”. Jesus said “I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life.” If we would seek “Him” as our “treasure” of life, the “anti-climactic” void no longer exists. Our lives are filled with an “eternal” treasure. Our search is over.
Now life holds a new found joy. There is an inner joy which connects us to God. Now what we “treasure” is found all around us. We can spend more time enjoying what surrounds us, instead of trying so hard to find it……..
November 3, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged blessing, growth, kids, life, maturing, meddling, Mom, over protective, process, protect
Meddling in a quarrel not your own is like taking a dog by the ears. (Proverbs 26:17)
I have found that meddling in someone else’s business where I do not belong can backfire. By interfering I can inadvertantly prohibit the outcome. To allow other people to experience what seems grievous, gives them a chance to grow and mature in areas of their lives. Being a Mom for over two decades I have seen this played out. Backing off and letting “life happen” to our children was a growth process that added richness to their maturity.
Too often it is so tempting to protect others from “falling off the swing” (as I like to put it). In so doing, they don’t learn how to face the bad with the good in life. If everything had to be good, we would continually be frustrated and angry, because life is just not always good! ………………(I wish !)
It was hard not to be an over protective Mom and it was doubly hard to let our kids go when the time came. It was a step by step process leading to a new kind of relationship. Watching them living their own lives out on their own is a rewarding blessing.
Now more than ever I don’t want to be a ”meddler” !
November 4, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, driving, grace, kindness, reaction, rudeness, temptation
Have you noticed there seems to be more rudeness on the highways these days? Today I was tempted to be rude in return to a rudeness towards me.
I had just pulled up to an intersection where I needed to turn right. The light was red. Looking to my left there was a vehicle coming fairly fast. There could have been enough time to pull out and turn, but I would have had to really speed through the gears to get up to speed. At that moment I decided to wait until the car went by so as not to risk that driver getting mad that I pulled out in front of him. Just as I made the decision to wait, I heard a honk from the vehicle behind me. I looked in the rearview mirror and saw the driver behind me shrugging his shoulders and stretching both arms out in frustration with me that I did not pull out. I then decided to smile and wave at the driver behind me……………………..
The Bible teaches that by responding foolishly to a fool, I now become like him. There are times that it would seem satisfying to respond angrily to get back at that person. But in thinking more about it, doing that would only bring on more of the same. By showing kindness instead, we also show grace. Perhaps that person was having a bad day. (Albeit no excuse of course) At any rate, by choosing the “high road” we can avoid the potholes of an ugly confrontation.
Interestingly, later on down the road I found myself right behind that same driver. I now had the perfect opportunity to give back what I had been given……………… I decided to show grace…………
November 28, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged family, friends, God, Thanksgiving
Spend the Thanksgiving Holiday Weekend with family, friends,
but most of all, with God……..
Thanks be to “Him” !
November 5, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged anxiety, choices, clean, depression, dirt, environment, eternity, fix, health, Jesus, pain, sin, washed
Cleaning is not my favorite pastime. Whatever gets cleaned has to be done again and again and again………washing the floor, washing the windows, washing the counters, washing the dishes, washing the clothes………It is a never ending cycle and some days it is hard to get motivated to do it. The fact that it will all get dirty again and need to be cleaned again makes me wonder sometimes “why bother”? But living in a dirty environment is just not healthy, so it must be done.
Another dirty environment we all face is a life tainted by our sinful nature. We can try again and again to make ourselves “clean”, but more often than not we can find ourselves still making unhealthy choices. These choices can lead us into a life of pain, depression and anxiety. Trying to wash away whatever it is that bothers us with temporary fixes, means we have to just do it again and again.
There is one washing that “never” needs to be done again. That is the washing away of all our sins by the blood of Jesus. His death on the cross took care of it once, never having to be done again. By receiving Him as my Lord and Savior, all the “dirt” in my life was washed away forever. I am clean in Christ !
Hallelujah!! Now that’s one awesome cleaning——-and it will last for eternity !
November 26, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged God, order, patient, peace, quality, timing, wait
In our fast paced society, having to “wait” for something or someone, is becoming more and more difficult. We want it “yesterday”, and are becoming less willing to be patient. Technology has contributed greatly to our increasing need to be gratified immediately. We get used to “high speed”, and then that even seems slow!
Instead of appreciating the time and expertise that goes into quality workmanship, we are willing to give up quality in order to get something faster. Training methods are condensed, schooling programs are rushed. Even relationships are expected to be set on “fast forward” !
Sooner or later we find out that all this rushing got us nowhere, and really got us nothing worthwhile. Learning to slow down and “wait” is a valuable process. Waiting on the right “timing” becomes imperative. When we give our lives to God, He cautions us to learn to “wait” on Him. His timing is perfect.
When we become patient, life takes on a steady fulfilling pace. God is a God of order, and peace. Our lives can then reflect His peaceful influence. He shows us the way to what really matters and is truly worthwhile. It is then that we learn that the purpose of our life was -
- worth the “wait” !
November 7, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged amazing, anger, caring, cat, God, love, unconditional
We have a very loving cat who we named Tommy. He appeared in our yard as a stray. At that time we already had a cat who had been with us for fifteen years. She was the only pet we had and therefore was not really excited about this “intruder”. It took awhile for her to tolerate his presence. That was about all she could do was tolerate him, and if he came too close she would really hiss at him, and sometimes strike at him with her paw. All during this time we were quite intrigued by Tommy’s behavior. He never once lashed back at our other cat’s angry hisses. He always gave her the space she desired. He even would politely wait for her to proceed to the kitchen first at meal times. And most of all, he would continue to keep her company (from a polite distance) and even try to play with her. It was as if he really cared about her and for her, even if she refused to accept it.
I couldn’t help but think that this cat was exemplifying the unconditional love that God has for us. That no matter what we say or do, or how angry we can get at Him, He continues to love us, even if we refuse to accept it. He loved us so much that He gave His only Son to die for us.
How can we possibly refuse that kind of amazing love?
November 7, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged battle, benefit, Bible, Christian, cost, fight, God, good, prayer, right, trust, victory, win
What are you willing to fight for? And is it worth it?
Do you fight for a parking spot, a place at the head of the line, the last word in an argument, wanting to be right, wanting to be understood – the list is enless……..
I have learned over the years that there is a cost and a benefit to almost everything I do, and say. Thinking more about the cost and benefit helps me to choose my battles more carefully. There was a time in my life when I didn’t really want to fight about or for anything. I thought it would be easier to just coast through life trying to please everyone and never having to disagree. Well, of course, that could not last very long before realizing that not everything or everyone around me was necessarily good or right. But what is good or right? And what is worth “fighting” for or about?
God has given us His guidelines for what is good and right in the Bible. He shows us what battles are worth a fight and worth winning. Thankfully, He also shows us ”how” to fight for what is good. Asking for His help in any situation is first and foremost. That help comes through prayer. He promises to have victory in any battle when it is turned over to Him, and I need to trust the outcome that He has chosen. Try it sometime!
Let Him “fight” for you !
November 10, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, blessings, despair, endurance, fear, inadequacy, insecurity, Jesus, marathon, mistakes, quit, strength
Have you ever done a marathon? It is a real test of endurance. Just being able to finish without giving up, can be more rewarding than whether you won or not. While you’re in it, you can think of a lot of seemingly good reasons to quit. But then, if you quit, you would have missed out on the best part – knowing that you were able to do it – that you didn’t quit, that you didn’t give up.
This can be applied to our lives in many ways. I can be tempted to give up on projects I have started, or relationships I am involved in. Just because the going gets tough while you’re in it, doesn’t necessarily mean that it is a waste of time, or that it isn’t worth it. Sometimes if I continue to push on through, I find out that I am glad I did.
My supervisor at a job I once had almost gave up on me. I had only been there a couple of months and there was a lot to learn. I had made some mistakes, and she had told me that my employment may not work out there if the mistakes continued. At that time I wondered if I should just give up and find another job. Well, after I learned the various processes that were involved, I became her star employee. When I had to move away and leave this job, they held a wonderful party in recognition of my good work. I was told by my supervisor and co-workers that I would be greatly missed.
Our lives are full of examples of tough times. During these times, if I give in to feelings of despair, fear, inadequacy, and insecurity, I could miss out on the blessings of life. The Bible teaches that we can always depend on the strength the Lord supplies to get us through. Jesus said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Knowing that He “never” gives up on me, and is “always” there for me, gives me that added strength and motivation to push on through.
My “marathon” just got easier !
November 25, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, conversation, edify, encourage, God, life, talk
We women love to talk !
Before the telephone was invented, women got together at someone’s home to – talk ! Then with the telephone, and now the cell phone, talking can happen all throughout the day. Research has shown that even “little” girls have a lot to talk about.
So what is all this talk about? Anything and everything…….! Topics are never a problem. But what can be a problem is the outcome of our conversations. Am I encouraging, edifying, and uplifting someone? Or am I using conversations as an excuse to gossip. Bringing other people down can be used as an indirect way to build yourself up. This not only hurts others, it can create an empty life of constantly having to justify yourself – to your “own” self.
The Bible has a lot to say about the “spoken” word. Negative and empty chatter can lead to an anxious and unproductive life. Lifetime quarrels over bitter words bring terrible heartache. On the other hand, words “fitly spoken” are described as cherished treasures. Uplifting comments make the heart “glad”.
Proverbs 18:21 reads: “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” Interestingly, the Bible itself is described as the “Word” of life. In reading the Bible, we learn that we can choose to use life giving words to help others. God gave us His written Word – the Bible - to help us come to an “everlasting” life - with Him.
Now my talks can help lead others to a better life…….with “Him”.
November 11, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged bitterness, Christian, forgive, friendship, honest, hurts, Jesus, love, people, process, repentance, sins
When our kids were little, my husband and I would tip toe into their room at night to check on them. We tried to be very careful not to disturb their sleep. Sometimes though, it didn’t matter how hard we tried, one of us would accidently make a noise. Then, sure enough, that would be all it took. We would have to go through the whole “going to bed” process all over again.
Have you ever had to “tip toe” around people? You try as hard as you can not to disturb them, but sure enough, the time comes when you accidently say or do something and you find out that they have been greatly offended. Often, you had no idea that you have disturbed them, and then you find yourself going through the process of regaining their friendship – all over again.
Sadly, some friendships are never regained. Deeply felt hurts can last a lifetime, and cause bitterness towards others. If we choose to never forgive others for a hurt that may have been caused, ultimately we could end up in bondage to bitterness. Being honest with one another in a spirt of love and repentance goes a long way towards rebuilding a friendship. Making an effort to understand each other’s view and to not take disagreements personally is a life long process.
Jesus was asked, “how many times shall I forgive my brother’s sins against me?” And He responded, “up to seventy times seven.”
If everyone did that ? ”Tip toeing” could become foolproof !!
November 24, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Christmas, God, Holy, Jesus, life, miracle
Do you believe in miracles?
Can they be explained? And if they can be explained, are they no longer miracles?
We can experience an event and decide it is a “miracle”. It is “super” natural, having no logical explanation. Looking around our world, there would seem to be many events that happen daily, having no logical explanation. You put a seed in the ground, and water it, and a plant grows. We can describe how it happens, but how does it “really” happen?
The air that we breathe is necessary for us to stay alive, but where did it come from? We can describe the components, but how do we explain the intricate part it plays in sustaining us? All around us are examples of the miracle of “life” in one form or another. Flowers bloom, trees grow, animals reproduce – babies are born………
The “miracle” of “life” - we can tell about it, theorize it, but it truly remains unexplainable. As Christmas approaches, we are reminded about the biggest miracle of all – Jesus’s birth………A “miraculous” event that impacted the entire world, and continues to do so. He was born to die…….and then live again……..for us to be saved. His was a Holy birth – God’s Son.
It’s not just a story, it’s a “miracle” worth believing.
November 12, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged arthritis, Bible, God, guard, heart, help, herbs, pain, prayer, well
My doctor looked at me and said, “you have rheumatoid arthritis, just go home and take aspirin.”
I thought to myself at that moment that this just could not be possible. I was not that old – mid forties. As I drove home I decided to not accept this prognosis. Putting my dilemma to prayer I kept my “spiritual antenna” up for answers. Before too long, my answer came. In my case, it was in the form of herbs which took away all the joint pain I had been experiencing.
Throughout my life I have learned that if I ask God for help, He always responds. What I need to do is keep the lines of communication open. If I allow negativity to interfere, I can miss out on what God is trying to tell me. Asking God to search my heart on a daily basis helps keep my heart pure. When I discover unhealthy motives arising from my heart I can choose to eradicate them. God gives us His power through the Holy Spirit to accomplish this.
A healthy heart is vital for life. How interesting that it is responsbile for not only our physical health, but also our mind and spirit. In the Bible there are many references to the heart. We are reminded to ask God to guide and guard our hearts. Then when someone asks me how I am doing – I can honestly answer,
“quite well, thank you !”
November 21, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Christian, flavor, food, God, holiday, Jesus, Savior
With the Holidays approaching, food with “flavor” thoughts come to mind. Our tastebuds gravitate to our annual favorite dishes - pumpkin pie, sweet potatoes, turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, etc. When something tastes good, not only do we enjoy eating it, we find ourselves wanting more.
On the other hand, if something lacks flavor, is tasteless, bland, or bitter, we would rather pass up that dish and avoid trying it again. We tend to have a good memory for the things we didn’t like. Sometimes it was so bad, we may “never” try it again!
Some people who have tried Christianity have had a similar experience. They found out that their life still contained times which lacked “flavor”, was bland, or bitter. Those memories stood out enough to cause them displeasure. They then decided it was so bad - it was not worth trying again.
“Oh yeah, Christianity – I tried that, it didn’t work for me…….”
Unfortunately, if someone has said that, they were misled from the beginning. Christianity is not something to “try”. It is a divine relationship with the Creator God, His Son and Holy Spirit. If you truly receive Jesus into your heart, you will “never” want to “try” anything else again. Bland and bitter days will happen, but Jesus is the “eternal” ingredient that turns everything into something “good” !
Instead of just giving it a “try” - open up your heart to receive “Him” .
—— you will “forever” want more !
November 13, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged eternity, excitement, God, Heaven, Jesus, life, Lord, moods, reality, Savior, thrill
I used to work as a secretary full time, Monday through Friday. Thursdays never seemed to be a very exciting day. Everyone would look forward to Friday evening as the official start of the weekend. People even acted differently on Friday. They seemed happier. It occurred to me that perhaps the days of the week should not dictate our moods. Why couldn’t Thursday be just as “thrilling” as Friday?
Perhaps we base our excitement a bit too much on outside circumstances that come and go, that don’t last. A much anticipated weekend sometimes doesn’t fulfill our expectations. We can feel let down, disappointed. That roller coaster ride, plane ride, horseback ride; they all came to an end. Could there be something thrilling to look forward to that never comes to an end?
That something is “eternity” in Heaven. Every day will be the best day of my life, and it will “never” end. In my daily walk with God, I am continually reminded about the reality of what is to come, and I will not be let down. It will exceed my wildest expectations. Jesus promises that you will have everlasting life if you come to Him, and receive Him as your Lord and Savior. The day I did that was the most thrilling day of my life.
Now “every” day holds the thrill of the coming ”eternal” weekend !
November 15, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, Christian, comfort, faithful, friend, Jesus, love
In order to have friends, I must be friendly.
A friend shows interest in others, loves unconditionally, sympathizes, sacrifices. A friend gives constructive criticism, helpful advice, is valuable in a time of need, and is always faithful. I like to think of my horse and cat as my friends! They are definitely always there for me, and so very loyal. They do love me unconditionally and show interest in me. They actually want to be with me. They do provide much comfort in a time of need.
But they can’t give me helpful advice or constructive criticism………. So it appears that we still need other people to be our friends. Without other people to give me sound advice, I may not mature into the person I need to be. I may not become the ”true” friend to others I “could” be. As a Christian, I know that Jesus is the best friend I could ever have. He not only has proven to show me all the characteristics of a real friend, He went a step further - He took on all my transgressions and died for me………….
Now I don’t ever have to feel totally alone. Jesus is with me round the clock, each and every day. That is His promise. His perfect advice has been given to me in the Bible. He has given me the Holy Spirit to guide me. When my other friends can’t be there for me, I know I can always rely on “Him”.
With “Him” as my best friend, I can now become more of a “true” friend to others.
March 2, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged behavior, Bible, Christian, evil, God, good, Jesus, knowledge, mentor, mimic, mockingbird, relationships, wisdom
My morning coffee time is enriched by the cheerful song of the mockingbird. I try to figure out how many different “tunes” he sings before he repeats them, and if he does them always in the same order. Then I wonder if he has his “own” tune thrown in there somewhere.
This bird must have spent time hanging around with other birds to have copied their songs. His talent for mimicking becomes very obvious as he then sits on the very top of a tree and runs through his repertoire.
Children also have a talent for “mimicking”. Spending time with our infant grandchildren makes me acutely aware of how quickly they mimic my mannerisms and words. It also reminds me of what an important responsibility we have as adults to model good behaviors and conversations, worthy to be copied.
Good behavior isn’t “good” unless we have the wisdom to discern what is good or bad. The Bible tells us that “when wisdom enters you heart, and knowledge is pleasant to your soul – then discretion and understanding will preserve and keep you”.
God’s wisdom never fails -
- if we mimic “Him” - we can feel more confident to have others mimic us !
November 18, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, clutter, confusion, contentment, God, joy, peace, prayer, purpose, simple
Have you ever had a day that started out “muddled” and stayed that way?
Our lives can be over filled with responsiblilities and opportunities. We can clog our minds with “mental clutter” because everything we do or want to do requires thoughts of some kind. Technology brings into our lives information on a global level. It is no wonder that confusion can interfere with our main purpose in life.
Keeping life simple holds the key to staying on the path to your purpose. When we allow the “muddle” of the world to affect our God given priorities discontent and dissatisfaction reign. The Bible speaks a great deal about peace and being still with God. Contentment comes when we go to Him in prayer at the start of each day. Reading His word gives us the examples we need to follow. He promises to lead us to His perfect purpose for our lives.
When I stay “online” with God, contentment, peace and inner joy make up my day. I would rather choose that kind of day – any day – than a “muddled” day !
November 21, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, God, healing, manual, perspective, purpose, therapy, wisdom
What’s your therapy?
I love to go for a ride on my horse out in the country, just before sunset. Swimming laps in an outdoor pool always refreshes me. And, once in a while, some chocolate chip cookie dough hits the spot!
Ultimately, talking things through with a trusted friend, and/or counselor does wonders to put our issues in perspective. But what “kind” of perspective I acquire makes a difference. A healthy perspective on life doesn’t just happen automatically. Finding out what is truly healthy requires devoted research and discipline. A healthy perspective has to come from somewhere…………….
God’s Bible is our manual on how to develop a healthy perspective. Every life experience that can be imagined is described, along with the ending results. The wisdom handed down through the ages has been tried and tested. The whole story is there, along with what we need to know to develop our life’s purpose. My daily reading of the Bible puts my perspective on a strong and healthy track. It will be my “viewfinder” for life……
—– and I will need less “therapy” !
November 19, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, Heaven, Hell, holiday, Jesus, Lord, pain, Savior
Some of the most happiest days can be the toughest.
Have you ever felt like your day was going along really great, you’re in a good mood and life is good? Then only to have it all change, in an instant…………and you find yourself almost in a state of shock that “this can’t be happening right now?”.
It would be so nice to live a pain free life, that nothing would ever go wrong. If we look back through history, the “painful” reality is that “pain free” does not exist. At least, not here in our life on earth. We’ve heard about how wonderful Heaven will be, but for now, of course, we are here, living our lives.
Heaven is an inviting place to think and talk about. But what of the reality of a place called Hell? Now there’s a place that won’t make the top ten topics at your next Holiday celebration! If what the Bible says about the reality of Hell is true, how do I avoid going there? After all, being there is all about “constant” pain, for eternity……….
Jesus promises that “He” is the way. He is knocking on our “door” of life, and wants to come in and save us. I found out that when I let Him into my life, and submitted to Him as my Lord and Savior – Hell would “never” be my destination. I can rejoice in knowing that Heaven will be my forever “Holiday” celebration !
My ”painful” experiences in life can be more “pain free”.
November 19, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, complain, content, food, God, life, prayer, thankful, weather, weight
I was born and raised in the Chicagoland area. The winters were cold with many gray days. The summers seemed very short, were very humid and mosquitos spoiled many evening cookouts. We used to complain a great deal about the weather. Because of the conditions, we had to find activites that could be enjoyed indoors. Most activites then revolved around food, and so we complained about gaining weight. We found a lot to “whine” about.
Now that I have been gone from that area for a number of years, I no longer whine about bad weather. I live in an area where it is sunny and nice most of the time. There are very few mosquitos and the weather is perfect for cookouts and outdoor activites. But now I find I miss the Italian beefs and pizza for which Chicago is famous, and the festive gatherings with the friendly people who live there. I now have new things to “whine” about!
When I look to the things I don’t have, and forget to be thankful and content with what I do have, life can seem to become unhappy and unfair. Even my prayers can become empty and selfish. I can lose sight of what really matters, and take on an unhealthy focus.
One of the Ten Commandments cautions us to not covet what is not ours. In some of the stories of the Old Testament, the children of Israel got into trouble when they decided to “whine” for things they did not have. Sometimes God went ahead and gave them what they thought they wanted. He did this purposely, so that they would find out that what they thought they really wanted - wasn’t always good for them.
Being content can combat coveting. In order to be more content, I need to spend more time with God, and read “His” Bible.
I can then be more of a “winner” than a “whiner” !
December 18, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged future, Jesus, promise, Savior, security, tomorrow
” I’ll do it tomorrow.”
If I say this to myself, it could mean I am procrastinating. On the other hand, there could be valid reason for waiting until “tomorrow”.
Knowing that there “is” a tomorrow seems to create a sense of security. If I always have a tomorrow, why worry about today? There is always “tomorrow” !
Unfortunately, our life here on earth doesn’t promise the security of tomorrow. Unforeseen deaths occur and take us by surprise. In the Bible it says – do not boast about tomorrow for you do not know what this day will bring forth…………….
Being responsible means we are to make plans for the future. These plans include family, friends and finances. But we should not overlook our spiritual plans. Where will my spirit go when I die?
Jesus said that if you believe in Him, and receive Him as your Savior, you will have eternal life. By resting assured in this promise, my security doesn’t have to depend on tomorrow. If I were to die today, I know I will live “forever”……………………….
……….and have plenty of “tomorrows” !
December 19, 2008
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Christmas, family, feud, God, Jesus, love, sin
Aaahhh………the perfect family…….. We all love one another, we all get along, we spend many times together making wonderful memories……………
Not !
“The Waltons”, and “Little House on the Prairie”, well, seems nice……but let’s be “real” ! Most families have “something” infiltrating the warm and happy pictures we have of the “perfect” family.
Families have been having troubles since the beginning of time. The Bible recounts many stories of troubling issues that still plague us even now in our “modern” times. Our environment changes but human nature and relational issues remain constant.
Jealousy, envy, covetousness, greed, anxiety, impatience are a few reminders of our “sinful” natures. No matter how hard we try to be “good”, failure is right around the corner. Feuds happen. Let’s face it, we truly are a bunch of sinners !
The Bible tells us that “no-one” is good………(Frankly, Santa probably sits around on Christmas Eve sipping Holiday Cheer in front of the fire, with no-where to go!)
But we don’t need “Santa”, we need “God” !………….God loved us so much, that even though we are sinful and “un-deserving”……He sent Jesus to take care of “all” our problems. Jesus took the blame for “everyone”…………………..unconditional love……..
…………the remedy for “any” family feud !
December 22, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged birth, Christmas, food, gift, holiday, Holy, Jesus, King, life, peace, simple
Better is a dry morsel with quietness, than a house full of feasting with strife. (Proverbs 17:1)
As Christmas Day approaches, concerns about food and gifts are on our minds. How much food? How many gifts? Will there be enough? Did I give enough?
The story of the “Wise Men” giving gifts to Jesus on the “first” Christmas forever marked in time this very special day of the year. They gave generously to who they knew was the “King of Kings”.
But Jesus did not arrive as a “King”. His humble birth and life of service brought Him very close to those with “meager” holdings. He led a life of “meager” existence. But what He gave to all of us was “priceless”.
He reminded us that our quality of life is not based on material possessions or status – that focusing on those things can bring us a life of trouble and worry. Jesus exemplified a simple and holy life. A life of true meaning and great worth.
He showed us that “much” can come from “meager”.
December 25, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged birth, bless, celebrate, God, Jesus Christ, joy, Lord, Merry Christmas
For unto us a Child is born………..
Celebrate the joy of the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ !!
It doesn’t end on December 26th…………we celebrate the “living” Christ each day, all year long !
God richly bless you and yours this Christmas !
December 29, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged anticipation, calendar, celebrate, Christ, Christmas, New Year
Well, here it is, the “other side” of Christmas – the few days before the New Year celebration. Some folks are back to work for a short three day week, some are on vacation somewhere, and some are just living out their usual routine whatever it is.
After a six week long jovial anticipation of Christmas Day, celebrations with family and friends for a long weekend, our mood on Monday morning could be “questionable” ?
The Christmas tree is looking pretty dry, the Christmas clutter around the house is losing its endearing quality, and at the mailbox, bills are replacing the Christmas cards ……….
Still, we can hang on to the glow of the Christmas lights still shining at night, the hopeful anticipation of the coming new year………..the calendar week of Christmas/New Year isn’t quite over yet.
But the days will pass, and the calendar “will” shift to the new year. What won’t pass or shift or change or come to an end, is the “Christ” of Christmas. The celebration of Christ in our heart lives on every day throughout the years. We truly can anticipate and celebrate each New Year, knowing Christ is with us, and will be with us forever.
Now my mood can be “constant” in Christ, instead of “questionable” !
December 31, 2008
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged death, eternal, Heaven, Jesus, life, Lord, purpose, Savior, time, victory
“It’s time.”
We’ve all heard that phrase. Perhaps you’ve been sitting in a waiting room for your operation, and the nurse comes in and says, “it’s time” – or you’re sitting in a classroom waiting to give your speech to the class, and the teacher says, “it’s time” – or you’re waiting in line, sitting on your horse at a horse show for your turn in the arena, and the gate steward looks at you and says, “its time”………..
So often in life we experience meaningful moments that come our way in their own “time”. Seasons of life come and go, the years go by, and we realize that there truly is a “time” for everything. The Bible tells us that there is a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to live and a time to die………….a time for every purpose under heaven.
Ultimately, we are all headed toward the moment when “death” will say “it’s time”. We try not to think about it, but every so often we are reminded of it. Every one of us is in the waiting line for death’s doorway. We will get to the front of that line and perhaps hear the words, “it’s time”…….
If we know Jesus as our Lord and Savior, our place in line does not need to be marked by dreadful anxiety, but one of an excited anticipation of an eternal life of joy in heaven. Jesus had victory over death so that we may “live” with Him forever……………
so at death’s doorway, it will be “His” welcoming voice saying “it’s time”.
January 2, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged anticipation, control, God, hope, New Year
Let’s look to the New Year with hopeful anticipation of what God will do this coming year !
“He” is in control !
January 5, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged God, heart, Jesus, kindness, love, maintain, mind, neighbor, New Year, soul
We’re now officially into the New Year. It’s interesting that a feeling of “newness” surrounds us, even though, for many of us, life right now is pretty much the same as it was last year. But hey, what’s wrong with that?
Changes are good, but some things can remain constant, no matter what year it is. How about the kindness you showed to someone last year? Something that seemed insignificant, may have blossomed into something beautiful because of you.
An encouraging word or a helping hand can make a difference in someone’s life. Helping them “maintain” rebounds into our own life. We can carry back the joy of getting outside of ourselves.
Jesus reminds us to love God with all our heart, mind and soul – and to love my neighbor as myself…………
So even though it’s a “new year”, let’s “maintain” what was good about last year and keep it going, throughout the years ahead !
January 7, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged change, fall, life, routine, stop, treadmill, YMCA
As I was working out on one of the weight machines at the YMCA, I casually looked over at the line of treadmills. All six were being used, and I listened to the sound of the steady footfalls walking steadily forward. Suddenly, an elderly woman went down, face first, frantically shouting she couldn’t find the stop button. She slid and rolled off the end of the moving rubber mat onto the floor. She called for help as she struggled to get herself back up on her feet.
Oddly enough, no-one made a move to help her at first. The other people next to her on the other treadmills kept plodding forward on their machines, almost oblivious to the fallen woman in their midst. Thankfully, the situation at hand broke through their “stupor”, and they got off their machines and gathered around her. Someone arrived with bandaids, and she was escorted to the women’s locker room.
As I thought about what had happend, I was reminded that sometimes we are mesmerized on our “treadmills” of life. We plod along daily, oblivious to the fact that sometimes we need to be torn away from our daily routine to notice situations around us, to stop what we are doing. If our “treadmill” of life is going nowhere, maybe it’s time to push the stop button, and get off…….
before we take an unnecessary fall and get bruised…………….!
January 8, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, creation, God, Holy Spirit, Jesus, judgement, knowledge, truth, universe, wisdom
Over the years it has come to my attention that true wisdom is set apart from knowledge. You can have all the knowledge in the world, but not be a very wise person. Besides having knowledge, we need to have good judgement.
But where does good judgement come from? If I have knowledge, but don’t know how to apply it, what good is it?
Actually, knowledge isn’t any good without the means to use it, and to use it “wisely”. The Bible says, “the fear of the Lord, is the beginning of wisdom”. We are told that you can be puffed up with much knowledge, but yet be useless.
Knowledge needs to be guided by understanding………and true understanding comes from knowing God. The Bible is full of testimony to that premise. Many “wise” people over the centuries have testified to the mighty impact of God as the forerunner of true wisdom.
He encompasses the full spectrum of knowledge into wisdom. Nothing can measure up. His mark is upon our entire universe……….He created it…….
Wow— and He loves us so much He gave us Jesus His Son, the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Bible, to guide us into His wisdom.
Check it out – you’ll be forever “wiser” !
January 8, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Apostle Paul, cactus, desert, God, humility, pain, pride, protection, thorns, virtue
Thorns have a “bad rap” !
Living here in the middle of the deserts of the southwest, I have found that just about every plant out there proudly displays its version of thorns - prickly, sticky, spikey, spiney, and the stealthy !
Being out in this type of terrain can be a testy challenge for anyone who is unaware of their power! Once you have had the experience of trying to rid yourself of any type of these pesky pain inducers, you will make avoidance of them a virtue !
Although they come in handy for the plant’s protection, they certainly are not the type of environment that we would like to be in close contact. In the Bible, thorns are referred to figuratively as elements of pain, judgement, unbelief, barrenness, and even “agents of Satan” !
As we live our lives, we will come across the “thorns” every now and then – like it or not, they are out there. How I deal with them, or try to avoid them, can get easier if I can figure out how to live amongst them. The apostle Paul described his “thorn of the flesh” as the means by which he could remain humble in the eyes of the Lord, and dependent upon the strength of God. Paul realized that otherwise, he ran the risk of becoming prideful, self -sufficient, and arrogant.
So perhaps thorns don’t just protect plants…………in an indirect way, they can protect us !
January 10, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged behavior, fame, famous, foundation, good, Jesus, life, popular, rich, right, unpopular
Do you have to be rich to be famous? If you think about it, no.
Perhaps because of our technology, the wealthy people who are famous are seemingly the most well known. Although, sometimes you may find out that the wealthy exteriors were temporary. Being well off financially can help you to get known, but in reality, some of the most famous people and events had little to do with money.
Mother Teresa comes to mind – and on the flip side so does Charles Manson. These people became famous for their works, whether good or evil. They became well known because of their extreme behaviors and dedication to what they believed was right.
Many times, famous people become role models in our society. We can tend to look up to them, because of their popularity. But being popular doesn’t always mean that what someone stands for is good. In fact, the opposite is often the case.
Standing up for what is right can sometimes be an unpopular position. You could become famous, but yet lose your popularity……..and at the extreme, lose your life…………
Jesus Christ is an example of fame without fortune, or popularity – His fame has continued to be spread, throughout the world. He stands for all that is good…..but yet is still widely unpopular………..
In the end, we must focus beyond the fame and the famous -
- to the underlying foundation of the “claim” to fame………
January 12, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, books, control, emotions, exercise, family, finances, God, help, humility, management, mercy, responsibility, self help, talk shows, time
Life requires management.
Even if you are not technically a “manager” at your job, having to “be” a manager is unavoidable.
When we became old enough to take responsibility for ourselves, we had to learn to manage. Not only are there physical and emotional demands for ourselves personally to manage, but there are also relationships around us demanding attention as well.
Every good manager could use some help now and then. How can I handle my time more efficiently, keep my emotions under control, juggle my finances to cover what’s needed, spend time with loved ones, exercise, etc., etc……………..
Self help resources abound these days – books, internet, talk shows. Where all this information originated is worth investigating. I have found that the original “self help” book is the Bible. The information in there originated with God, and since He masterminded the universe – His credentials as the ultimate manager surpass anything on the planet !
In the book of Micah, we are told; to do justly – love mercy – and to walk humbly with your God……..
If I start with these three simple principles, I can better manage my life, instead of “it” managing me !
January 20, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, Co-dependent, direction, God, healthy, Holy Spirit, Jesus, Lord, motivation, Savior, strength, tackle
I had a “tendency” towards “co-dependency” !
Being co-dependent allowed me to depend on someone else for motivation, direction, gratification. It was a great way to avoid dealing with myself !
Although it is always good to surround yourself with encouraging people, it is not healthy to depend on others to live your life for you. Breaking away from this unhealthy tendency was a rewarding process.
Receiving Jesus as my Lord and Savior was the most important first step. Through Him I was given the Holy Spirit to guide me into the truth – the truth about myself, as well as life around me. God’s Word in the Bible and prayer helped provide the strength I needed to tackle issues.
Now, I can be co-dependent on God – and that’s a “healthy” tendency !
January 13, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged emotions, exercise, faith, fear, God, Holy Spirit, Jesus Christ, life, potitive thinking, recreation, resource, strength, test
Does the word “test” make you nervous?
For some people the thought of a test can invoke such fear that they are dumbstruck. But yet there are some who relish any challenge to be tested.
Some types of testing give us a chance to be prepared. We feel more confident when we are given advance notice and can study up or practice whatever it is we need to know. But in reality, much testing happens in our lives without advance notice. We can be taken unaware by circumstances beyond our control.
Our emotions our tested routinely throughout our lives. Unmet expectations, unforeseen disappointments , tragic events are crisis points we all contend with sooner or later. As time goes on, it becomes apparent that preparing for these “tests” can be a life saver.
But how does one prepare for the upsets of life? Avoidance tactics, stoic exercises of the mind, positive thinking , pleasure filled recreation are some of the most popular choices. To an extent, they are all good tools for a supportive strategy when trouble hits. But after time, their strength diminishes…….becomes faded………..runs out……….
The answer key to life’s tests ultimately points to our faith in God. When we receive Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, we can now rely on the Holy Spirit to guide us to the strongest preparations and solutions available.
This resource “never” dinimishes, fades or runs out………..
January 14, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged God, organize, peace, power, refresh, schedule, time, vision, weariness
I’m so tired…………
I hear this phrase more and more these days. In a world of advanced technology, time saving gadgets, state of the art “stuff”, weariness is running rampant.
It seems so many of us are running somewhere playing “catch up”. Demands from jobs, home maintenance, personal paperwork, and relationships require us to “keep up” somehow, stay abreast and not fall behind.
What we shouldn’t fall behind on is our quiet time with God. A personal relationship with Him requires constant attention. When our best time is with Him, the rest of our time becomes better organized. Although weariness still remains a reality, we can trust in His promise that we can continually rest in “Him”.
His perfect peace arching over our endless schedules can alleviate our burdens, and bring us clarity and refreshment. He promises to guide us to vibrant visions for our lives fueled by His power. Then our weariness can reflect His good works through us………
…………….of those we need never grow weary !
January 15, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged free, friend, God, money, relationship, rob, service, talent, thief, time, tithe
Stop……..thief !
Most of us have probably not had that phrase yelled at us. We’ve heard it used in movies, seen it in stories we’ve read. It is usually obvious that the perpetrator has stolen something. Many times it is money, expensive jewelry or precious possessions which are taken.
But all around us there is evidence of other kinds of thievery. When personal business is done during company time, the employer is being “robbed”. A service could be considered stolen when it is rendered by a friend, and that service is “expected” to be either discounted or free, even though this is how they make their living. Time can be stolen by taking too much time from someone else with phone conversations, and visits which are too long. Ignoring relationships with others can “rob” them from having the chance to be a friend, partner, spouse, mentor…….
We can even rob God by neglecting time spent with Him - by not offering our gifts and talents to serve Him – by not donating to His Kingdom……….
In the book of Malachi it is said, “Will a man rob God? Yet you have robbed Me ! But you say, ‘In what way have we robbed You?’ – In tithes and offerings.”
Hmmmmm……instead of getting something for nothing, how about …….
……..giving something to get nothing ?
January 17, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged failure, faith, God, good, home, job, life, perfectionism, pessimism, relationship
When someone says, “nothing can wrong” – that makes me nervous!
Let’s face it, if something can go wrong, it probably will. Is that pessimistic? No, maybe “realistic”! All through our lives, we find out that nothing is “foolproof”.
Throughout history we’ve seen how mankind’s views of perfection have been thwarted. The sinking of the Titanic is one example. It was supposed to be “unsinkable”. The Berlin Wall “did” come down, Hitler never achieved the “perfect race”, the list goes on and on………….
Bringing this concept down to our own personal lives, we find that “foolproof” doesn’t exist there either. Our jobs, home life, outside relationships – they all include times of failure.
Failure is a fact. None of us can escape it. We can try to avoid it, but eventually it will find us. How we deal with it, can be more important than the failure itself. Fear of failure can paralyze us, cause us to hold back.
If we rely on our faith in God, His fortitude sustains us through failures. Many times we find that so called “failures” brought us to something even greater………..even to a point that perhaps it no longer seems that we have failed at all………because God promises to make all things work together for good…………….
…………. “He” is truly “foolproof” !
January 19, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged approval, average, control, depression, discouragement, expectation, failure, fear, God, Holy Spirit, imperfect, Jesus Christ, love, perfectionism
Life is all “mixed” up !
I call myself a “recovering” perfectionist! It has been later in my life that I discovered that being imperfect was fine. Looking back, I realize that trying to control not only myself but the world around me was virtually impossible, and fruitless.
Perfectionism potholes are all around us. Expectations which are too high either promoted by our own self, or others around us can cause us to stumble. Running around looking for approval based on accomplishments can put us on a difficult pathway to discouragement. Fear of failure , because being average isn’t “good enough” blocks our way.
When we find out that life is all “mixed” up with “imperfections”, it could be a relief instead of an annoyance. We as people are imperfect, and accepting imperfection actually releases us to discover new territory. We can feel more freedom in trying new things, and experiencing more joy.
If we try to be loved and accepted through perfectionism, we are destined for despair and depression. Our heavenly Father loves us all, just as we are. He sent His Son Jesus, to bring us into “His” perfect kingdom. Through Jesus Christ, our imperfections are washed away. The Holy Spirit continues to guide us into God’s perfect world.
“He” is the only “perfect” one, and we don’t have to be………..
………….what a relief !
January 22, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, Jesus Christ, joy, kindness, lonely, neighbor, pleaser, selfish, service
Please thyself !
Life seemed simple and easy when all I had to do was please myself. Being selfish fit right in with today’s culture. Go my own way, and do my own thing. Just think about my own self, and avoid dealing with others who got in my way.
Unfortunately, trouble finally came, and I found out, I could use some help. Not only that, but it started to become pretty boring just pleasing myself…………not to mention a bit lonely.
Daily doses of emptiness finally caused me to search for something more. My search led to Jesus Christ, who filled my life, abundantly. Now I need never be lonely, and I can look forward to each day with hopeful anticipation. My days now include daily doses of joy as I serve the Lord through acts of kindness towards others.
The Bible tells us to “love thy neighbor as thyself”.
Now pleasing “thyself” involves pleasing others, but most of all, pleasing my heavenly Father !
January 26, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, comfort, God, masterplan, order, plan, security
I’m a planner. I like knowing there is some sort of a plan. Within the plan, it’s nice to know there are options, A, B, C, D, etc………….
Life seems more orderly with a plan, more predictable, and secure. Many things we do benefit from making a plan first. The Bible talks about doing things in order and putting a plan together.
“Who” the planner is can make a difference. When someone with experience in the subject area puts the plan together, there is comfort in knowing things will probably go to plan. But what about those times when the plan does “not” go to plan?
That’s the time to hand everything over to the “Masterplanner” !
God !
January 28, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, destination, goal, Heaven, Hell, highway, Jesus, Lord, map, road, sign
Which way are you going? There are all kind of signs out there……..one way, this way, highway….no way! Any “way” you decide to go, will eventually lead you somewhere – or nowhere!
Figuring out where we want to end up will help determine the “best” way. In life there are many paths we can take towards our life goals. Not all of them will lead to our destination. Some will be dead ends, or be barricaded by the debris of distractions.
When we drive towards a destination, using a map helps us find the best route. Making life choices also depends on what sources we use to find our way. In the Bible are many examples of how to make wise choices. God gave us true life stories to help steer us away from destructive “ways”, along with examples of the best “ways”.
Ultimately, death awaits us, with either Heaven or Hell as our eternal destination. When we get there, we will find it was a good idea to have mapped out a ”way” ahead of time. That ”way” was receiving Jesus as Lord.
Jesus said that “He” is the “only” way to Heaven. No other “roads” lead there.
Make sure you are on the right road !
February 2, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged aspiration, career, Dad, family, maternal, Mom, professional, vocation
Women are wired to be maternal.
When I was growing up I thought focusing on a professional career was the thing to do. Being a Mom never occurred to me as an aspiration. Although I lived in a family where Mom stayed home and Dad worked professionally, vocations outside the home “seemed” more interesting.
Now I realize that being a full time Mom was the best “job” on the planet! My husband worked professionally while I stayed home. We raised two fine sons, and are now enjoying the fruits of our labors. They now have their own families and we delight in the grandchildren.
Investing in what really matters is priceless………no matter what the “economy” does !
February 4, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged compete, complete, different, employee, friendship, marriage, men, power, role, unisex, women
Part of being a woman is letting men be men!
In our society, men’s and women’s roles are becoming “unisex”. I have heard complaints coming from both sexes. Confusion and frustration have caused men and women to either battle with one another, or just give up and look the other way.
Power struggles plague marriages, friendships, and employee relationships. Who should boss who, or do what? Do we really want to share the same responsibilities, perform the same tasks?
No ! Men and women are truly wired differently. They are emotionally and physically set apart. Going against the “nature” of who we are sets us up for aggravation and unhappiness.
The research is out there to help us realize and accept our differences. By understanding each other, we can enjoy and appreciate how we can compliment one another.
We can “complete” instead of “compete”………….
February 6, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged balloons, choice, coffee, desert, fun, happiness, heart, Jesus Christ, joy, Lord, mind, Savior, strength
Balloons are fun !
On many mornings I have the pleasure of watching the giant hot air balloons float past our house. They come in many bright and festive colors. My favorite is the giant green saguaro cactus with the colors of the southwest desert as the backdrop. As I drink my coffee and watch them go by, I’m thankful that these people take the time and make the effort to bring something happy into our lives.
“Being” happy is another story. We still have to choose whether to be happy or unhappy. It comes down to a state of the mind and heart. Outside circumstances are helpful, but after a period of time, they lose their influence.
Our inner joy has to become the source of happiness. The source of inner joy has to be able to withstand all circumstances. This source comes from a deep relationship with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Through Him, we find the strength and reason for joy in our lives.
Then we can “really” have fun !
February 9, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged agenda, free, God, honesty, Jesus Christ, life, love, manipulation, relationship, truth
Have you ever felt manipulated?
Our society is filled with manipulation tactics. Business advertisements claim “free” products or services to get our attention. Friendly people approach us with hidden agendas. Sometimes we are used for what we know, or what service we can render, without being compensated.
Finding out we were manipulated carries with it a sense of dishonesty. Somehow, we weren’t shown or told the truth. It can be an unpleasant experience.
In life, truthful relationships without manipulation are sometimes hard to find. Thankfully, we have a God who “openly” tells us about, and ”freely” offers to us an everlasting relationship with Jesus Christ. It is “never” based on manipulation, hidden agendas………it is solely based on love……..
…………and it really “is” free !
February 11, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged attention, Christian, eternity, Father, focus, grandson, Jesus, Lord, love, Savior, Son, special, time, waffles
Our three year old grandson loves to help make waffles. Sometimes we’ll have them for dinner. Using the waffle maker intrigues him, especially the little green light that comes on when the waffle is done.
Spending time together is what makes this so special. He gets a chance to be the focus of our attention, and that makes “him” feel special.
Being the focus of attention from someone we love is not just for three year olds. Frankly, we all want love and attention no matter what our age. Feeling special puts a whole new spin on our daily existence. Everybody wants to feel loved.
Our Heavenly Father considers each one of us to be very special. He loves us so much, He sent His Son, Jesus, to die for us ……..so that if we receive Him as our Lord and Savior, we could spend all of eternity with Him. He wants to be with us…… forever.
Knowing that I am so deeply loved, makes me feel special…….every day !
February 13, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Christian, forever, Jesus, life, love, unconditional
I will love you “forever”.
So often these words are spoken. They are easy to say, especially when we are feeling good. But what happens on a “bad hair day” ?
Our love is put to the test on the days we “don’t” feel good. In the Bible, we are told about perfect love………it bears all things, endures all things, “never” fails…..it is “unconditional”. This can be a tall order when the frustrations of life are also on the “bill”.
Unconditional love just doesn’t happen by itself. We have to look past the imperfections of others (and ourselves). Jesus modeled for us what unconditional love really is – to lay down one’s life for another, regardless of who we are, or what we’ve done.
Jesus did that for me, and for the world. His love is real……..
……………and forever.
February 14, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Christian, God, life, love, truth
This day will end, but our love doesn’t !
God Bless You All !
February 16, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged atmosphere, Bible, Christian, entertainment, inspiration, life, medicine, moods, music, truth, worship
Music is “medicine”.
Our moods can be greatly influenced by different types of music. “Heavy metal” can actually create a feeling of heaviness. Wild “rock and roll” can create a wild and tense atmosphere. On the flip side, soothing symphonic instrumentals can soothe the soul. The comedian Steve Martin once used a happy banjo tune to create a funny light mood even while the lyrics stated that “your house just burned down” !
All in all, we are responsible for our choices of music. Many times, altering our choice could help to create a better atmosphere, not only for us, but for others around us.
In the Bible, there are many accounts of how music was used for worship, celebrations, and even for soothing mental disorder. Throughout the ages, and still today in our time, music “plays” an important role in our lives. We can be inspired by it………but also brought down by it.
Use it wisely – and “play on” !
February 19, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Christian, Creator, God, Jesus, Lord, plan, purpose, Savior, talent, truth
I often hear people say it is hard to be “themselves”.
In our society, it has become increasingly difficult to be yourself. Many times we find ourselves trying to be like someone else, or look like someone else.
Troubled childhood experiences can add to our distorted view of ourselves. People may have labeled us as “stupid”, or “ugly”. Sometimes we carry these false labels around our entire lives.
When we receive Jesus as our Lord and Savior, our Creator God gives us the discernment we need to realize the truth. We find out that “He” created us for a plan and a purpose. He gave us specific talents designed for His plan for our lives. He takes pleasure in watching us use these special talents.
Then we can truly be…………….ourselves !
February 23, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged character, choice, Christian, communication, conclusions, Jesus, love, meaning, offended, personality, relationships, truth
What is the “meaning” of this? Whatever do you mean?
We’ve all used or heard these common phrases. Communicating to others exactly what we really mean can sometimes be difficult. “We” know what we mean, but the other person may perceive the words we choose in a different way.
Sometimes people can be offended by whatever it was we have said. There are also times we do not understand what was said to us, and then we must “choose” if we want to be offended or not………..
Over the years, I have learned to be less sensitive to other people’s remarks. Many times, I have realized that they had no intentions of offending me. It was up to me to clarify what they really meant, and not jump to conclusions.
By paying more attention to the character and personality of the individual speaking to me, I can get a better grasp on what they are really trying to say……………and if it is safe enough to ask for clarification!
When I communicate to others, it helps to be “well-meaning” in the first place. Jesus tells us to love others as we love ourselves. He also reminds us that our “yes be yes” and our “no be no”………..
so be sure to “say what you mean” and “mean what you say” !
February 26, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, Christian, decision, folly, foolish, haste, integrity, Jesus, relationships, thorough, wisdom
After a “thorough” investigation, the following was concluded…………….
Sometimes, if we don’t take the time to check things out thoroughly, we can regret it. We might jump into something and find out later that what we participated in, and the people we were involved with, lacked integrity.
What looked good on the outside maybe wasn’t “good” after all. Finding out what the motives were, and the character of the individuals involved could have provided the information that was needed to have made a better decision………….perhaps avoiding whatever it was altogether.
Unfortunately, when we hastily enter into something we shouldn’t, we can get hurt by it later. In the Bible, we are told that “being impulsive exalts folly”.
Before stepping out, take the time to be more “thorough” ………….
……….. be “forewarned” instead of “foolish” !
March 3, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, Christian, Creator, eternity, God, Jesus, Lord, Old Testament, relationship, Savior, separation, sin, Son, Temple, veil
“And behold, the veil of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom…..”
In the Old Testament of the Bible, we learn about the veil of the Temple. It was used as a separation. Only the High Priest could physically go behind the veil and access a special area reserved to speak with God.
When Jesus Christ died on the cross, this veil was torn from top to bottom. Man did not tear this veil. God did. It was one of many symbolic events which occurred at Christ’s death………into eternal life.
This “tearing” of the veil was to let “us” know that there need no longer be any separation between us and God. We can now access God directly, through His Son Jesus.
Jesus paid the price for all of our sins. If we receive Him as our Lord and Savior, we can now go directly to God, our Father – through Jesus.
The “torn” veil was a powerful visual to all of mankind. It was, and still is, a vivid representation of an important invitation ——–to engage in a loving relationship with our Creator…………forever.
If a decision regarding your eternal destination has you “torn”………..consider placing that “tear” in Jesus’s hands…….
….you’ll never regret it !
March 5, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged anger, attitude, behavior, Christian, covet, Cross, envy, evil, God, good, heart, Holy Spirit, human nature, Jesus, joy, laws, Lord, remedy, rules, selfishness, sin
“Thou shalt not – lie, covet, steal, murder, take the Lord’s name in vain……..”
Anyone hearing or seeing the news reports of our society finds out very quickly that what shouldn’t be done …….. does. Unfortunately, just “knowing” what we should or shouldn’t do doesn’t seem to be an adequate remedy for the troubles of our world.
Human nature leans precariously towards falling into bad behaviors. There are many bad behaviors that are obvious enough for us to avoid as a general rule. But there are the subtle transgressions that can fool us into thinking we don’t fall into any of these ”sinful” categories.
The roots of “evil” can grow out of seemingly “good” soil. Growing up in a “good” home, being responsible, paying the bills, helping out in the community – these are all the fine trademarks of a good life. But sometimes underneath these outer layers of good deeds we can still hide attitudes of selfishness, envy, jealousy, anger………
It is not enough to just “know” how we should be – we also need to know “why” and “for whom” we live our lives………for without a higher calling and purpose, the “shouldn’ts” of life are just rules to try and follow, and also break.
Jesus came to save us from the endless attempts to keep “rules” that eventually get broken. He came to give us “new” hearts and attitudes, with the power of the Holy Spirit, to genuinely guide us into purity. Through Him, we no longer have to fear breaking any rules……….He took our penalties with Him at the Cross……
……….then we can think more about the joy of what “shall” be done…..instead of what “shall not” be done !
March 9, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged change, Christian, cooking, faith, God, life, meatloaf, recipe, strength
I like meatloaf !
There are different ways to make it. My recipe has seasoned bread crumbs, onion, milk, soy sauce and some lean ground beef. Other recipes call for eggs, sausage, and other spices.
The differences in recipes take on a personal flair according to our own acquired taste preference. Sometimes a better recipe happens when you’re out of one of the ingredients and you have to figure out a substitute.
This is similar to how my day turns out at times. The ingredients of “my” recipe got changed, and the day took on a whole new flavor from what I had planned.
Over the years, my faith in God has been strengthened by these changing “recipes” for my days. I find I have acquired a new taste for the various end results……..
and that “God’s” recipe always seems to come out “better” !
March 12, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, Christian, clean, gangs, graffiti, hypocrites, Jesus, law, relationships, righteous, transparent
Graffiti appears everywhere these days.
We see it on walls, street signs and any flat piece of public property. Some time ago spray paint cans were put behind locked glass doors at the stores to hopefully decrease graffiti. Apparently, the people responsible for defacing public property are still acquiring what they need because it is still being done.
Eventually, these gang signatures are “whitewashed” and then the cycle starts all over again. It becomes obvious that just painting over the graffiti doesn’t get rid of the problem. The real problem goes deeper. It begins with the people who are using the paint to make their mark.
Just cleaning up outward appearances by “whitewashing” doesn’t always clean up underlying problems. Although something may look “clean” on the outside, the “dirt” underneath could still be there.
In the Bible, Jesus talked about the hypocrites who appeared “clean” on the outside, but inside they were full of extortion and self-indulgence. He compared them to a “whitewashed” tomb, which appears beautiful outwardly, but inside are full of “dead men’s bones and all uncleanness”.
“Even so you also outwardly appear righteous to men, but inside you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness”. (Math. 23:28)
Let us not be fooled by people who appear “whitewashed” on the outside…………and make sure we’ve taken the time to clean up ourselves……….
………….inside and out !
March 14, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged awareness, Bible, Christian, economy, encouragement, fellowship, furlough, Jesus, love, positive, relationships
Due to the economic situation, mandatory furloughs are being taken at the company where my husband is employed. These are week long absences from work without pay. No contact with work is allowed, no cell phone calls, no emails, etc.
Feedback on these furloughs has been interesting. People are finding out that this time off has allowed them to put their focus on other things. Spending time with loved ones has been a positive outcome.
Sometimes we need to have something taken away to guide us into an awareness of something more important, and perhaps more gratifying. Often, we can get bogged down with what we think we need to be doing.
Slowing down the pace, and taking the time to relate with other people enriches our lives. Encouraging others, and enjoying good times together is always time well spent.
In the Bible, Jesus reminds us to fellowship with one another, to take care of one another………………so don’t wait for a “forced” furlough from work to spend time with loved ones…….
…………make a “fellowship” furlough a part of your usual routine !
March 25, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Christian, clothing, economy, faith, food, God, Jesus, kingdom, needs, peace, promise, provision, shelter, trouble
What are you willing to live “without” ?
This has been on my mind lately, with the downturn of our economy. I am now having to modify my schedule and habits due to the changes. Businesses are shortening their hours of operation, employers are laying off or offering less hours, and costs for food, clothing, etc., are still gradually rising.
Here in America, we are used to prosperity and convenience. Compared to many other countries, we live “with” a great deal of extras. Giving up some of the extras is do-able. But of course, we physically can’t do “without” food, water, clothing and shelter. For those who are struggling with these necessities, daily living is a great hardship.
Whether we are living “with” or “without” – we need to put faith in God at the top of our list of necessities. Trouble comes to all of us at some point, whether we have much, or whether we have little. God promises to provide for all our needs, and cover us with His peace.
Jesus said, “Seek first the Kingdom of God, and all else will follow”.
When we have a relationship with the One who created “all” —–
—– we will never have to live “without” !
March 31, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, Christian, disciples, doubt, eternity, evidence, God, Jesus, Lord, resurrection, Thomas
Whenever I have doubts about something, it helps to be able to do the research to get the answers I need. Gathering up all the evidence I need to support my conclusion alleviates my doubt.
Although, sometimes even the evidence can come into question. “Tangible” evidence is ideal. If something is clearly defined, or better yet, able to be touched physically, how can there then be any doubt?
In the Bible, we are told how Jesus made sure that there was plenty of “tangible” evidence of His birth, ministry, and more importantly, of His resurrection.
He appeared to many people after He rose from the dead. One of the most memorable accounts was of His appearance to a disciple named “Thomas”.
Thomas had serious doubts, and Jesus made sure that He provided “tangible” evidence to alleviate these doubts. After His resurrection, Jesus made another appearance at a gathering of the disciples. He specifically asked Thomas to physically “touch” Him – especially His wounds………
And Thomas exclaimed, “My Lord and my God!” (John 20:28)
If we take the time to look, we will find that Jesus left the “tangible” evidence we need……. especially to alleviate the “doubting Thomas” in all of us………
……… and I am “eternally” glad He did !
April 7, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged belief, Bible, Christian, death, destination, detail, Easter, eternity, God, intentional, Jesus, life, resurrection
When was the last time you dusted the hinges on all the doors in your house?
Recently, my husband mentioned to me that the hinges on the doors needed cleaning………Now bearing in mind that my husband is a machinist, this remark should not be a surprise – machinists are very detail oriented – they need to be very precise.
Not all of us are this detail oriented. I tend to be more of a generalizer, a “let’s sum it up” kind of person. Admittedly, the hinges on the doors never occurred to me to need any kind of cleaning ! My amazement to his observation was later tempered by the realization that yes – the hinges did need to be cleaned……. But at the same time, I wondered where I should put this task on my “priority” list.
Our lives are filled with tasks to be accomplished. Some seem more important than others. The decision to be made on their importance is based on our perspective. Cleaning hinges is probably something I could live my life without giving it much thought.
But whether we are detail oriented or not, we will all have thoughts about getting old and facing death. Where we will go when that happens, is a “detail” we should put at the top of our priority list.
Jesus said, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?” (John 11:25,26)
Out of everything, make your life and death belief a “detail” not to be missed…………..
………… your eternal destination “hinges” on this !
April 9, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, blanket, Christian, everlasting, Holy Spirit, intentional, irritable, isolation, Jesus, life, Lord, outdoors, peace, protection, provision, relationships, relief, Savior, sensitive, thankful, trials
In general, Thoroughbred horses are “thin-skinned”. They can be more sensitive to being brushed, and irritated by flies.
We owned a Thoroughbred mare for a number of months, and during fly season, she would run and buck. The irritation to her skin caused her to be very irritable. In order to give her some relief, we would cover her with a cool, cotton, body blanket. You could see her thankful expression and watch her spend time outdoors at peace.
In our world, we will meet people who are “thin-skinned”. They are sometimes overly sensitive to life’s difficulties. They can be irritated and hurt very easily. Often, they will “blanket” their lives with isolation to try and protect themselves, trying to provide some kind of peace.
Jesus said that in this world we will have trials. He also said that through our belief in Him we will have an everlasting peace………..peace which surpasses our understanding. When we receive Him as our Lord and Savior, we are given the Holy Spirit, and the added strength to withstand life’s trials.
It is “His” blanket of protection that allows us to spend time “outdoors” amongst the irritations of daily living ………
in peace !
April 14, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged alternative, angels, Bible, Christian, dentist, eternity, fire, furnace, God, Heaven, Hell, intentional, Jesus, pain, Savior, teeth, wicked
Going to the dentist is not one of my favorite pastimes.
I know I need to take care of my teeth, but I usually wait much longer than I should before I finally go to the dental center. When my name is called and I travel down the hallway to “my” room, the sounds and smells coming from the other rooms as I pass them cause me to feel nauseous. Entering “my” room, I dread the sight of the “reclining chair” where I will have to sit and try to remain calm.
Even though the people working there are trying to create a cheerful atmosphere, the underlying truth remains the same……..this is a “house of pain” !! Let’s face it, tooth pain is one of the worst. In fact, the Bible even makes reference to it. Jesus said:
“So it will be at the end of the age. The angels will come forth, separate the wicked from among the just, and cast them into the furnace of fire. There will be wailing and gnashing of teeth.” (Math. 13:49,50)
Perhaps to really make His point - being thrown into the furnace of fire where there will be wailing and gnashing of teeth - is mentioned twice in the same chapter……
You know, tooth pain is bad enough, but to experience even more horrific pain on top of that - for eternity – well, I’m just VERY glad that Jesus gave us an alternative -
Eternal life with Him in Heaven,
where there will be no more pain…………
April 11, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged celebration, Christ, eternity, free, intentional, Jesus, life, victory
The greatest victory of all time — victory over death !
Celebrate eternal life with the “living” Christ ———-
———-if you don’t have it – “receive it” —–
—-it’s FREE——–
April 17, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged beliefs, bondage, Christ, Christian, faith, free, freedom, God, grace, intentional, Jesus, joy, law, legalism, Lord, New Testament, Old Testament, perfection, rules, Savior, sin
Are you really “free” ?
We talk a lot about being free. Free to think and do and say what we believe. In America, we are used to exercising our freedoms – especially our freedom of beliefs. Our beliefs are greatly influenced by our faith.
As Christians, we put our faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. We are told throughout the New Testament that we are “free” in Christ – that we have been set “free” from the law of the Old Testament.
Over the years I have met many Christians who have put themselves back under “law”. They found saving grace through Jesus, but then seem to have slipped into a life of legalism. It has robbed them of their joy……..
Some have decided to put themselves under their own bondage of rules and regulations, and focus on perfecting their lives by how many of these “rules” they can follow. The apostle Paul warns us of this danger:
“Are you so foolish? Having begun in the Spirit, are you now being made perfect in the flesh? (Gal. 3:3)
Jesus died on the cross to set us free from the bondage of constant sin under the law. He was the eternal sacrifice for our sins. We no longer have to “perform” legalistic works to gain favor with God. It is through faith and belief in Jesus that we now have eternal favor with God.
We can now truly have “joy” and “justification” at the same time…….
en-joy!
April 27, 2009
· Filed under relationships · Tagged Bible, Christian, distractions, duties, God, intentional, Jesus, peace, responsibilities, time, work
After being out of town for a week, Monday morning means facing “many things” !
What was I doing a week ago that I need to continue doing? Did I forget to do something that had to be done? The mail is piled up, the e-mails are piled up, the laundry is piled up, errands to be run are piled up, thoughts running through my mind are piled up………..!
Well, before I get buried under the “piles” of life, I need to spend time with the “One” who can dig me out! When I push away the world, find a quiet space, and spend quiet time with God, His peace covers me – instead of the “piles” of things to do.
In the Bible we read about Martha - she was troubled about all that there was to do and that she needed help. Jesus said, “Martha, Martha, you are worried about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:41,42)
“Mary” was taking time to spend with Jesus, and His word…….while Martha was distracted with “much serving”.
What we do - does matter. What matters more, is “He” who matters most !
- and “His” name is Jesus.
April 30, 2009
· Filed under thoughts · Tagged Bible, Christ, Christian, courage, encouragement, eternal life, faith, fear, God, intentional, Jesus, power, resurrection, storm, thunder, weather
When my brother was a little boy, he used to be terrified of storms, especially the thunder. He would run and find a place to hide and cover his ears.
Later in life, he took a great interest in weather, and eventually became a meteorologist. Besides forecasting weather on the air, he has also coordinated weather safety events, and counseled others on emergency management during severe storms. His greatest fear became the focus of a life-long career.
Facing our fears instead of running from them, gives us a chance to learn more about them – and ourselves. Many times it is through our fear that we can find our greatest source of courage. In the Bible we are told that ”in my weakness, I can be made strong”. (2 Cor:9,10)
In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus faced tremendous fear. He relied on our heavenly Father to sustain Him. He knew that He could not do what He would have to do – alone. Only God’s power could sustain Him for the events leading up to His death on the cross – and only God’s power could resurrect Him to eternal life.
Fear has lost its power over us, when we connect with the One who “has” the power – instead of running from thunder, we can allow ourselves to be “thunderstruck” – by the One who invented it !
